Mom’s accusation of neglect to attend sister’s wedding provokes internet outrage

Members of a popular online forum are outraged after a mother revealed how her sister’s wedding ended with a vitriolic husband and accusations of neglect.

in viral form reddit The post posted on r/AmITheA**hole, Redditor u/Walls_Windows1376 (otherwise referred to as the original poster, or OP) said the couple had argued about taking a trip to the wedding for months before her husband’s actions forced her to take matters into her own hands.

entitled “[Am I the a**hole] Because I’m still going to my sister’s wedding after my husband canceled my plane ticket? ” Mail It has received nearly 14,000 upvotes and 3,000 comments in the past eight hours.

“That’s the situation,” the OP began. “My husband… and I… have 3 children. I [stay-at-home mom] I take care of the kids while my husband works (full time).”

Continuing to explain that her sister got married last weekend, the original poster said the ceremony was hours away, and that her husband made it clear he wouldn’t be there from the start.

The original poster also said that despite her husband’s refusal to attend and her sister’s disdain, she still planned to go and bought a plane ticket for the weekend from the wedding.

Unfortunately, this plane ticket was never used.

“When we first got the invitation, he told me he wasn’t going, that he was going to stay for the kids and suggested I do the same,” OB wrote. “I insisted on going because this is my only sister.

“As it was the wedding [approaching], brought the matter up and told me to miss him and stay with the kids… I shrugged it off, “The OP continued.” On the day of my flight I dropped the kids off at my friends place and then… find out he canceled my plane ticket… So I went home and got in my car and drove 4 [hours].

“My husband called me and was afraid of me asking where I was… He blew up saying I wasn’t supposed to go, he even said he canceled my ticket to force me to stay,” he added. “He called me [a] Then my awful and neglectful mother asked his mother and scolded me and accused me of abandoning my children.”

Attempts by a romantic partner to prevent anyone from seeing or meeting family members and friends is an immediate red flag and a possible indicator of emotional abuseto me Psychology Today.

When someone is withdrawn from their loved ones, their perception of their relationship, and most importantly, their partner’s behavior, can quickly become muddled.

“The emotional abuser may gas his victim in the belief that his unhappiness is his fault”, Psychology Today Confirms. “They usually seek to isolate their victim from friends and family, to prevent the person from obtaining a reality check or a broader perspective.”

Isolation, as well as other abuse tactics, aims to increase control while stripping the victim of autonomy. And the When these tactics failHealthline reports that yelling, yelling, and other forms of violence will certainly follow.

Angry woman at the airport
The mother is upset after learning the plane ticket has been cancelled. Members of the forum r/AmITheA** pit on Reddit outraged after a mom revealed why her husband canceled her trip to her sister’s wedding.
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During the comments section of the viral Reddit post, Redditors echoed that sentiment, acknowledging the severity of an action such as canceling a plane ticket purchased from a partner, and strongly advising the original publisher to re-evaluate her relationship with her husband.

Financial breach? yes. Isolates you from your loved ones? yes. Behavior control? Yes,” Redditor u/waywardjynx wrote at the top of the post’s comment, which has garnered over 25,000 upvotes.

“[Not the a**hole] and please leave [a**hole]And they continued, “You are not careless, your children have been taken care of.”

Redditor u/Aussiebibliophile, whose suspension received more than 8,000 votes, provided a similar response, focusing on the accusations of negligence leveled against the original poster.

“The man… did everything in his power not to have to raise his children for the weekend,” they exclaimed.

“Your relationship is not healthy,” they added. “He is manipulative and controlling.”

“It controls you and isolates you from the family,” the Redditor u/Vequihellin echoed, garnering more than 3,000 upvotes. “You already owe him a name [breadwinner] And canceled a plane ticket to force you to stay away from your family… you need to [get the f**k out] from there.”

NEWSWEEK u/Walls_Windows1376 has been accessed for comment.

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